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If Your Man Is Sending You Mixed Signals, Read This By Devon Bradway

Men are often just clumsy in love.
Before you call it quits, make sure
you're not walking away from your

- - - > The truth behind his mixed signals < - - -

Devon Bradway here, and today I'll be
sharing a little about guys who go hot
and cold. These are the men who say one
thing, but do something different... and
there are LOTS of them out there.

Over the past several weeks, Alexandra
has been receiving e-mails from our
readers that ask the same thing:

"Why do guys get my number, but never

"Why do guys ask me out to dates, but
cancel at the last minute?"

"Why does he say he loves me, but
doesn't want to commit?"

Well, today these questions will be
answered... by a guy.

Why me? Why should you listen to a guy,
of all people?

Simple - because I've been through it
myself. I see other guys do it all the
time. And in the past, I've been
hot-and-cold myself. So I did my dirt,
so to speak!

Why did I do it? Why do guys do it?

There are only three reasons:

Reason #1:
Some Guys Don't Want To Commit

Some guys out there can like a woman,
BUT have no plans of committing.

We're talking about players, swingers,
free-thinkers... you get the idea. These
are the guys who simply don't like the
idea of being "tied" to any one thing,
or any one woman.

Sadly, guys like these can be tough to
crack. After all, you can't change a guy

Let me tell you from experience: You
can't convince us, you can't scare us,
and you can't force us into changing.

Why? Because we simply don't like change
being imposed on us, even if that
"change" is supposed to be good for us.

It's like a guy trying to convince,
scare, or force you to stop shopping.
You'd want to leave him, too!

So here's my advice: If he's already
mentioned that he would NEVER commit to
you, and if you're already on the verge
of leaving him, then go ahead and leave.

Life is short - you're probably better
off closing this chapter of your life,
and starting a new one with a man who's
more willing to commit.

Here's reason #2:

Reason #2:
Some Guys Aren't Able To Commit

I once had a friend who was struggling
financially. He had a girlfriend, and he
loved her to death, but he knew he
couldn't take care of her in his current

He promised to work as hard as he could
to get out of his financial problems and
marry her.

Sadly, his girlfriend couldn't wait that
long... and he watched helplessly as she
hooked up with a richer guy.

Whenever I tell this story to women, one
of the comments I often get is this: "He
should have just committed to her! Love
is all you need!"

Sorry, that's not true. Alexandra and I
have both coached couples who loved each
other, but were being torn apart by
money problems.

In fact, did you know that 50% of all
divorces and separations are caused by
money problems?

So here's my advice: If you really love
him, but he's still working out a few
issues that keep him from committing,
then stick it out with him.

Admire him, respect him, and be
supportive. That's what he needs the

And finally:

Reason #3:
Some Guys Don't Know How Love Works

Early in my dating life, I was guilty of

When I was younger, I used to date quite
actively... but none of my relationships
ever worked out. I simply didn't know
how love and attraction worked - and my
ignorance was a BREEDING GROUND for
misconceptions, misunderstandings, and
hurt feelings!

Here's the thing: Men, like women, don't
learn about love and attraction in
school. Most times, we have to figure it
out ourselves... and that means making a
LOT of mistakes.

And that's what I did - I simply didn't
know enough about love and dating to
make the right moves!

I'm sure you've met guys like this -
"newbies" to the dating game, who have
never really spent time with a girl
before and are very nervous and

They have only the best intentions - but
they're just not "dating-savvy!"

If you're dating someone like that,
here's my advice: Be patient!

If you love him, and if you know more
about love than he does, then feel free
to guide him. It's an embarrassing phase
we all go through, and some of us need
more help than others.

How To Figure A Guy Out

There you have it - the top 3 reasons
why men sometimes go "hot-and-cold." It
all boils down to their ability to
handle and nurture a real relationship.

Some guys aren't willing. Some guys
aren't ready. And some guys don't have a
clue. It's just that simple!

The good news is that there are ways to
help a man make smarter decisions in
your relationship, no matter what you
think his problem is.

Is he not WILLING to commit? Leaving him
just might change his mind.

Is he not READY to commit? Support him
and be his #1 fan until he becomes

Is he CLUELESS about love and
commitment? Then guide him with your
love and patience.

If you'd like to learn the secrets
behind your own man's quirky behavior, I
invite you to read my eBook, Mixed
If you have the following

problems, then this eBook is for you!

(1) Does he stare at other girls?

(2) Do you feel he's "playing" you?

(3) Is he not over his ex yet?

(4) Can he NOT take hints?

(5) Does it sometimes seem as though he
doesn't care about you?

Visit the website below to get your copy
of Mixed Signals:

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 Mixed Signals also comes with
three free bonus eBooks:

(1) 5 Reasons He's "Hot And Cold"
(2) How To Read His Love Signals
(3) How Men Read YOUR Signals

Best of all, Mixed Signals comes with a
30-day money-back guarantee. Get your
copy today!
Sweep him off his feet,

Devon Bradway


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