Skip to main content

Words That Trigger Love By Alexandra Fox

Do you sometimes get tongue-tied when talking to guys you
secretly like?
 
 
Do you sometimes say dumb/embarrassing things?
 
 
Do you keep wondering why you get so nervous and jittery
whenever you're in a one-on-one conversation with a
cute guy?
 
 
You might notice a certain few women around you - friends,
co-workers maybe - who have absolutely no problem talking
to that cute new guy in the group.
 
 
In fact, cute guys even seem to be DRAWN to them like
a magnet.
 
 
What's their secret?
 
 
What do they SAY to these guys that instantly make them
feel attracted?
 
 
Here's The Secret...
 
 
Most women think that communicating with a man is all
about "knowing the right things to say."
 
 
Actually, that's only HALF of the equation.
 
 
What's the other half?
 
 
It's about making him feel something special while talking
with you.
 
 
When a woman is just being herself, and guys still find
her approachable, attractive, and loads of fun to be
with... that means she doesn't just know the right things
to say. Her words also make the guys FEEL something
special!
 
 
That's the key. And today, I'll be giving you a few free
pointers on how to make a guy "feel something" whenever he
talks to you!
 
 
Let's start with:
 
 
The 2 WRONG Ways To Talk To A Guy
 
 
These are the bad communication habits you'll need to get
rid of:
 
 
1.) Small talk. Talking about your job, the news, the
weather is okay at the beginning. It breaks the ice.
 
 
But if you find yourself asking interview questions 15
minutes into the conversation, you're coming off as boring
and shallow.
 
 
2.) Talking only about yourself. Or worse, ranting. Yes,
you want him to "feel something" when talking to you...
but not anything BAD!
 
 
Remember, it's not what you say - it's how you make
him feel.
 
 
Now let's move on to:
 
 
The 2 RIGHT Ways To Talk To A Guy
 
 
These should be your "default" communication habits:
 
 
1.) Ask about him. Guys like to talk, too. It gets them in
a good mood. And eventually he's going to ask: "Enough
about me, how about you?"
 
 
2.) Always have a few good stories in mind. No matter how
good a conversationalist you are, you 'll still run into a
few "awkward silences" once in a while. That's why it's
smart to have a few good stories as backup.
 
 
That way, when an awkward silence strikes, you can simply
dip into your trove of good stories and pipe up: "Oh,
speaking of which..." and the conversation continues!
 
 
Now, let's move on to the heart of the matter:
 
 
The ROMANTIC Ways To Talk To A Guy
 
 
That's right - there are wrong ways, there are right ways,
and there are ROMANTIC ways of talking to guys.
 
 
You got to get rid of the wrong ways, get used to the
right ways, and tap into the power of the ROMANTIC ways.
 
 
What are the ROMANTIC ways of talking to a guy? Here are a
couple of examples:
 
 
1.) Flirt lightly. Here's your first lesson on romantic
communication: It's not just about talking. It's also
about your actions, gestures, mannerisms, etc.
 
 
For instance, take the wink. After you share a good story
and have a good laugh together, you stare into his eyes
and give him a two-eyed wink.
 
 
He'll think of that moment long after he goes to bed! ;)
 
 
2.) Subtle innuendos. When he asks what you do for a
living, and you answer: "Oh, I'm a manager. I like to be
on top of things."
 
 
What happens? He'll imagine you "on top..." if you know
what I mean.
 
 
Or if you answer: "Oh, I'm a freelancer. I work hard at
home, and I play hard at home."
 
 
What happens? He'll imagine "playing hard" with you... at
your home.
 
 
Now, of course, you're not INVITING him to play around
with you just yet. That's not the point.
 
 
The point is to "plant" those ideas in his head, and make
his heart race a bit... and instantly make him think:
"Wow, she's really something. I want to know her
better..."
 
 
In other words, you're putting him in "chase mode." And as
you already know, a LOT of beautiful things happen when a
man is in chase mode!
 
 
And so, right now, I'd like you to take a look at yourself
and how you talk to guys.
 
 
You got to get rid of your bad communication habits,
replace them with good ones, and then learn some powerful
ROMANTIC ones!
 
 
Here, I made a worksheet to make things easier:
 
 
1.) What are the WRONG ways I talk to guys?
 
 
a.) _______________________________
b.) _______________________________
c.) _______________________________
 
 
2.) What should I do instead?
 
 
a.) _______________________________
b.) _______________________________
c.) _______________________________
 
 
3.) What are the RIGHT ways I talk to guys?
 
 
a.) _______________________________
b.) _______________________________
c.) _______________________________
 
 
4.) How can I turn them into ROMANTIC ways?
 
 
a.) _______________________________
b.) _______________________________
c.) _______________________________
 
 
In the meantime, if you want to learn ALL the romantic
ways of talking to a guy, you might want to grab a copy of
my Romantic Words For Men eBook collection.
 
 
It's the fastest, easiest way to  make men FEEL SOMETHING
SPECIAL  when  they 're with  you ... even if  you 're just being
yourself!
 
 
Are you going out with friends this weekend?
 
 
Or better yet... are you going out on a date? ;)
 
 
Reactions:

Comments

Post a Comment

Any comment from message

Popular posts from this blog

Will He Commit to You - 4 Telltale Signs By Alexandra Fox

Have you ever had a man who loved you, and then suddenly QUIT on your relationship when things started to get serious? Frustrating, isn't it? Why in the world would a man get your hopes up, only to disappoint you when it really matters? Here's the bad news: There are LOTS of men like that. They think they have what it takes to take care of a woman. But when things get serious and you start talking about commitment, they duck and run. How pathetic! The good news? You CAN keep yourself safe from these men. This newsletter will teach you how to spend less time with the cowards, and more time with the men who WILL stay with you! And it's easier than you might think. Because here's something you might not know about men... lf you love this article text loving to 77948 to donate $3 ======================================== COWARDICE IS A HABIT ======================================== You bet - a man's cowardice doesn't happen instantly. It's a habit. And you can see a man's cowardice in…
1 comment
Read more

Signs of a Failing Relationship By Alexandra Fox

Hi Girls!  Tell me if you've experienced this before:  Let's say you met a great new guy, and you took a liking to each other immediately.  Within a few dates, you're already in constant communication with each other.  You text every morning.  You call every few days.  You try to see each other at least once a week.  And then, one very special date, when you feel like it's time to take the relationship to the next level, you ask him if he's ready to go steady. And after a few embarrassed moments, he says YES! What follows is a great first few days of the relationship. You're ready to scream the fact to the entire world -- you're officially a couple, and you're well on your way to happily ever after!  ...Or so you thought.  Soon after the relationship started, you noticed that he's not staying in touch as often. He's not texting unless you text first.  He doesn't call as often.  He doesn't seem as interested in intimacy before.  He isn&#…
1 comment
Read more

He Led a Double Life Scott Jennings lived in a world of lies, affairs, and deceit until it all fell apart. By Mary May Larmoyeux

Scott Jennings never dreamed he would cross the line. But somehow it happened. He was unhappy at home. He loved Sherry, but … well, she was the boss at her work, and she acted like the boss at home. When things needed to be done, she would tell Scott what to do. And he got tired of it. He wasn’t one to talk about his emotions. So he turned inward. He would escape to the fire station—where he was a volunteer fire fighter—and start drinking. Things got worse after the Jennings’ son, Steven, was born in 1995. Sherry wanted to be supermom and Scott was happy to let her do it. Soon he avoided being around Sherry and Steven altogether. If Sherry went to bed early with Steven, Scott stayed up late and watched TV. He often pretended that a call had come in from the volunteer fire department, but when he left the house he would head to a local bar instead. That’s where he became friends with people who seemed to really understand him. Scott also turned to a woman at work for a listening ear. E…
1 comment
Read more

Why Relationships Grow Cold By Alexandra Fox

Today, I'll teach you a cool trick that can turn around 
even a cold, distant, or loveless relationship. 
Better yet, I'm also about to show you how to “revisit” 
your favorite moments in your love life, even if those 
moments came from past relationships. 
What am I talking about? Just this... 
Take a minute to remember the HAPPIEST moments of your 
love life. 
It might have been early in a past or present 
relationship, when your man was still MADLY IN LOVE 
WITH YOU. 
He couldn't wait to see you, he was always texting and 
calling, or he kept giving you gifts and asking you out 
on dates. 
Those were the moments when you were really, truly, 
completely happy... even if the relationship didn't stay 
happy for long. 
Now, imagine revisiting those HAPPY moments. Imagine 
having the ability to make YOUR love life that happy 
again... and make it STAY that happy.  
YOU CAN! And all you'll need is the “cool trick” I'm about 
to teach you today. 
Of course, it's not the ONLY “cool t…
1 comment
Read more

4 Steps to True Love By Alexandra Fox

Are you in a relationship with a man right now... or do you secretly wish you were? No matter what your situation is right now, in the Unforgettable Woman community, our goal is to help you find true love and happiness with the man of your dreams. On the journey to find true love and happiness, there are a few challenges. Most people give up and never overcome these challenges. Today I would like to share with you how to deal with the 2 biggest challenges women face in a relationship.... Challenge #1: Things Will Get Boring. The first few months of a new relationship are almost always sizzling hot. But after things settle down, the thrill fades away, and the relationship becomes a little... boring. If you've been in a failed relationship before, you know how it goes! So how do you deal with this challenge? First of all, don't panic. All relationships go through the quieter, less exciting stage after the first few months. And it's easy for the couple to miss the "good times" they share…
Post a Comment
Read more
Rapidly Grow Your Email List, Sell Products And Double Your Social Media Following With This One Simple Plugin By Yaro Starak
112 Comments Facebook
Post a Comment
Read more

Timeless Love Advice From 5 of My Happiest Readers By Alexandra Fox

Is there a toxic man in your life? Or worse... is there more than one? It's the holiday season - a time of hope and happiness! And I believe your LIFE should be filled with hope and happiness, as well. And toxic men should have no place in your life, period. (Make it your New Year's Resolution!) Today, I won't be giving you the usual dating advice like I usually do. Instead, I'll let five of my readers give their advice to you when it comes to dating toxic men... "Hannah's" Advice: Be Smarter Than Players My advice would be to stay away from players - they're bad news. I learned that the hard way after I first moved to the city and started dating seriously for the first time. Guys can: - Be dishonest - Cheat behind your back - Say things they don't really mean - Play with your feelings - ...and keep you coming back for more! I advise you to educate yourself about these men. Know all their tricks, and know all their weak spots... so that when a player tries to play you, yo…
1 comment
Read more

MOMENTS with YOU By Dennis and Barbara Rainey

June 16

Out in the Open
The man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed.
Genesis 2:25

Being "naked" but "not ashamed."

This is why we get married—not just to have sex, but also to become emotionally intimate with another person. We want someone we can be openly transparent with, someone who accepts us, even when we're being our real selves.

Yet although this is what our souls long for, many couples—especially young couples—hide this need behind the mere act of sexual togetherness. They find having sex easier than opening up to each other spiritually, where the potential for hypocrisy and awkwardness always exists. Sex can be easier than opening up emotionally, letting someone else in on their fears and worries and dreams and deepest feelings.

That's why, even when the level of sexual intimacy is high in a marriage, the level of real transparency can still be surprisingly low... and subtly debilitating.

I recall a young single man stopping by Barbar…
1 comment
Read more