Words That Trigger Love By Alexandra Fox

Do you sometimes get tongue-tied when talking to guys you

secretly like?

 

 

Do you sometimes say dumb/embarrassing things?

 

 

Do you keep wondering why you get so nervous and jittery

whenever you're in a one-on-one conversation with a

cute guy?

 

 

You might notice a certain few women around you - friends,

co-workers maybe - who have absolutely no problem talking

to that cute new guy in the group.

 

 

In fact, cute guys even seem to be DRAWN to them like

a magnet.

 

 

What's their secret?

 

 

What do they SAY to these guys that instantly make them

feel attracted?

 

 

Here's The Secret...

 

 

Most women think that communicating with a man is all

about "knowing the right things to say."

 

 

Actually, that's only HALF of the equation.

 

 

What's the other half?

 

 

It's about making him feel something special while talking

with you.

 

 

When a woman is just being herself, and guys still find

her approachable, attractive, and loads of fun to be

with... that means she doesn't just know the right things

to say. Her words also make the guys FEEL something

special!

 

 

That's the key. And today, I'll be giving you a few free

pointers on how to make a guy "feel something" whenever he

talks to you!

 

 

Let's start with:

 

 

The 2 WRONG Ways To Talk To A Guy

 

 

These are the bad communication habits you'll need to get

rid of:

 

 

1.) Small talk. Talking about your job, the news, the

weather is okay at the beginning. It breaks the ice.

 

 

But if you find yourself asking interview questions 15

minutes into the conversation, you're coming off as boring

and shallow.

 

 

2.) Talking only about yourself. Or worse, ranting. Yes,

you want him to "feel something" when talking to you...

but not anything BAD!

 

 

Remember, it's not what you say - it's how you make

him feel.

 

 

Now let's move on to:

 

 

The 2 RIGHT Ways To Talk To A Guy

 

 

These should be your "default" communication habits:

 

 

1.) Ask about him. Guys like to talk, too. It gets them in

a good mood. And eventually he's going to ask: "Enough

about me, how about you?"

 

 

2.) Always have a few good stories in mind. No matter how

good a conversationalist you are, you 'll still run into a

few "awkward silences" once in a while. That's why it's

smart to have a few good stories as backup.

 

 

That way, when an awkward silence strikes, you can simply

dip into your trove of good stories and pipe up: "Oh,

speaking of which..." and the conversation continues!

 

 

Now, let's move on to the heart of the matter:

 

 

The ROMANTIC Ways To Talk To A Guy

 

 

That's right - there are wrong ways, there are right ways,

and there are ROMANTIC ways of talking to guys.

 

 

You got to get rid of the wrong ways, get used to the

right ways, and tap into the power of the ROMANTIC ways.

 

 

What are the ROMANTIC ways of talking to a guy? Here are a

couple of examples:

 

 

1.) Flirt lightly. Here's your first lesson on romantic

communication: It's not just about talking. It's also

about your actions, gestures, mannerisms, etc.

 

 

For instance, take the wink. After you share a good story

and have a good laugh together, you stare into his eyes

and give him a two-eyed wink.

 

 

He'll think of that moment long after he goes to bed! ;)

 

 

2.) Subtle innuendos. When he asks what you do for a

living, and you answer: "Oh, I'm a manager. I like to be

on top of things."

 

 

What happens? He'll imagine you "on top..." if you know

what I mean.

 

 

Or if you answer: "Oh, I'm a freelancer. I work hard at

home, and I play hard at home."

 

 

What happens? He'll imagine "playing hard" with you... at

your home.

 

 

Now, of course, you're not INVITING him to play around

with you just yet. That's not the point.

 

 

The point is to "plant" those ideas in his head, and make

his heart race a bit... and instantly make him think:

"Wow, she's really something. I want to know her

better..."

 

 

In other words, you're putting him in "chase mode." And as

you already know, a LOT of beautiful things happen when a

man is in chase mode!

 

 

And so, right now, I'd like you to take a look at yourself

and how you talk to guys.

 

 

You got to get rid of your bad communication habits,

replace them with good ones, and then learn some powerful

ROMANTIC ones!

 

 

Here, I made a worksheet to make things easier:

 

 

1.) What are the WRONG ways I talk to guys?

 

 

a.) _______________________________

b.) _______________________________

c.) _______________________________

 

 

2.) What should I do instead?

 

 

a.) _______________________________

b.) _______________________________

c.) _______________________________

 

 

3.) What are the RIGHT ways I talk to guys?

 

 

a.) _______________________________

b.) _______________________________

c.) _______________________________

 

 

4.) How can I turn them into ROMANTIC ways?

 

 

a.) _______________________________

b.) _______________________________

c.) _______________________________

 

 

In the meantime, if you want to learn ALL the romantic

ways of talking to a guy, you might want to grab a copy of

my Romantic Words For Men eBook collection.

 

 

It's the fastest, easiest way to  make men FEEL SOMETHING

SPECIAL  when  they 're with  you ... even if  you 're just being

yourself!

 

 

Are you going out with friends this weekend?

 

 

Or better yet... are you going out on a date? ;)